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Registered: 10-26-2010
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Sun, 04-14-2013 - 9:13pm

The A had ended a long time ago. Life was settling into a good place, then boom D-day. The pain is horrible. I never understood what it would be like to scar someone's soul. I wish now I had kept my integrity in tact and just left my marriage, it would have saved everyone a lot of pain.

~Sunny~
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-11-2013
In reply to: sunnydaysnow
Tue, 04-16-2013 - 9:59am

I'm sorry, Sunny.  I hope you're OK.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-10-2009
In reply to: sunnydaysnow
Wed, 04-17-2013 - 2:54pm
Yes. I understand. If everyone knew how destructive affairs are and how painful the results were we could save our selves a lot of strife as human beings. I am sorry for your pain and that of your spouse.
Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
In reply to: sunnydaysnow
Mon, 04-22-2013 - 12:34am

Sunny love -

Sent you a pm, but in case you don't get it, wanted to send you some love and hugs.

You can get through this.  It isn't easy, but it is possible.  I'm here, and others as well - you're not alone, sweetie.

Hugs,

Kim

    

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-03-2013
In reply to: sunnydaysnow
Tue, 06-04-2013 - 2:14am

I'm sorry but I don't understand the issue that if your relationship had ended a while ago, how could you be so devasted now? I think its important that you share this info so that we can all possibly learn from it.  Was it credit card receipts far down the line? An old enemy choosing to try to hurt you? How can women possibly protect themselves years down the line?

Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
In reply to: sunnydaysnow
Thu, 09-12-2013 - 10:53pm

Sunny, I don't know if you've been around at all or will see this, but I wanted to say I've thought of you often over the last few months, and wondered how you're doing.

Check in if you see this, please?

Hugs,

Kim