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Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
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Tue, 01-31-2012 - 1:00pm

Hey!

We have a chat room here.

Did you know that?

We do!

And *I* knew that, but sort of forgot that we had it for a while.

But, I'm there now!

Wanna come see?

:)

Kim

    

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Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
In reply to: justkim2007
Tue, 01-31-2012 - 7:32pm
Thank you E1, Lu and Daisy - that was a lovely way to spend part of my afternoon.

:)

Kim

    

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-28-2010
In reply to: justkim2007
Tue, 01-31-2012 - 7:42pm

Hi Kim,

Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
In reply to: justkim2007
Tue, 01-31-2012 - 7:48pm
Okay - you see up top, under the GINORMOUS letters yelling AFTER YOUR AFFAIR?

In the little blurb just below that, at the very end, it says ""AAS Chat room" - if you click on "chat room" it will open a new window, and there you will be.

I think I remember that the first time I went in, it had to update my java or something similar. Let me know if you can't get in - I'm trying to get there now and it's not loading up, but my home computer is a dinosaur, so it may just need some time.

Kim

    

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-28-2010
In reply to: justkim2007
Tue, 01-31-2012 - 7:54pm

Found it-thanks!

Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
In reply to: justkim2007
Tue, 01-31-2012 - 8:01pm
Woo hoo!

It took me a while to get there tonight - so let me know if you have any issues, and I'll pass the word along to the techies.

I think it's okay, probably just my slow computer, but you never know with the wonderful world of technology!

Kim

    

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-22-2011
In reply to: justkim2007
Tue, 01-31-2012 - 8:06pm
The pleasure was all mine, Kim! Thanks to you, E1 and Daisy. Super fun.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-01-2011
In reply to: justkim2007
Wed, 02-01-2012 - 10:10pm
No....Kim, Lulu and E1. The pleasure was all mine!! Lol. I learned more in that chat and the chats I had with E1 than I have with my T in months. Lol. E1...I read an entire book on breaking away from a narcissist today. Whew...it was tough. I could literally see my xAP in every sentence. Then they give you the ugly, and I mean ugly, truth. He never loved me, he did everything only thinking of himself, and in 1 sec he turned and walked and does not think of me ever. It is the Narcissist way. It was incredibly tough to know what I already really knew deep down inside. I should have always trusted that little voice in myself that said for 1.5 years something was wrong. You should always trust that voice!!!! A good day and bad. Progress and sadness. But I am sooo grateful for you guys. You bring me joy. :) Daisy
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2011
In reply to: justkim2007
Wed, 02-01-2012 - 11:28pm
I am jealous. I mostly acess from my phone and don't see a chat room.

Daisy, what was the name of the book?
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-01-2011
In reply to: justkim2007
Thu, 02-02-2012 - 7:42am
Rain...the book is...."Narcissistic Lovers...How to Cope, Recover and Move on." By Cynthia Zayn and KevinDribble. It was spot on for me and one of the toughest things I have ever read. My entire story was in that book. After reading it I decided I needed more specific help in dealing with this kind of recovery, so I have my first appointment today with a T that specializes in the Narcissist and people who have had to walk away from them. There is no cure for NPD (Narcissist Personality Disorder). But I can recover, with much work. Let me know Rain if you read it! ((hugs)) Daisy
Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
In reply to: justkim2007
Thu, 02-02-2012 - 10:43am
You can't chat when you access the mobile version? :(

Maybe we can make a date - when you're on a PC?

:)

Kim

    

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