Did ya miss me? :)

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-14-2011
Did ya miss me? :)
Mon, 11-05-2012 - 11:42pm

Well I took a bit of a break from the boards, not on purpose, just because life intervened.  (BTW- what is up with this new format?? YUCK!)

My D should be finalized by the end of the year, which will be good. I'm ready to move on with my life and close this chapter.  Because of the D, I need to find a job with benefits. Insurance was my career for 15 years when I quit due to ending the A.  So I am looking to get back into that field and have had several interviews.  And at ALL of the interviews, XAP's name has come up (he was my boss and owner of the agency).  They say how great of a guy (which is true) he is and how did I like working for him etc.  It is awkward, but it is not PAINFUL as it would have been in years past.  I can answer the questions without it making my very soul ache for him.  I am happy to be where I am today and am continuing to learn about myself through this process. 

Anyway, just wanted to say HI and that I have missed you all.


Formerly heartacheafter7years
Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
Tue, 11-06-2012 - 11:40am

Happy to see you made it back, Angie.  :)

Wishing you the very best of luck with your job search - I hope you get something fabulous to kick off your new life.




iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2011
Wed, 11-07-2012 - 7:25am
Missed you too Angie! I hope you find an amazing job.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-01-2011
Wed, 11-07-2012 - 10:00am

Hoping you get a great job and you sound wonderful! I am so happy for you!


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Registered: 12-13-2010
Fri, 11-09-2012 - 11:47am

Angie!  Yes, I missed you!  And, I actually had a dream last night that I met you in person!  How weird is that?

I have thought of you often.  As you may or may not know, I (finally!) sent the final “please do not contact me anymore” email on October 4.  So far, so good.  Feel like I can TRULY count NC days now that he is really leaving me alone this time.  So what does that make me today?     36 days of TRUE NC (meaning no sightings at yoga studio or ignoring any fishing attempts).  It’s all done…over.

Whew.  And I am now beginning the healing, which includes grieving too.

So glad you are back and you are an inspiration to so many of us here.  I know you will find a great job; look how strong you are!!