Just struggling

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-19-2011
Just struggling
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Fri, 03-09-2012 - 10:30am

I don't miss him, per se.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2010
Fri, 03-09-2012 - 12:32pm
Hugs...you are in no way a fool. You are a beautiful soul and if someone takes advantage of your love and kindness...well that's not your fault. It is the fault of the person who takes advantage. Use this quote I once told xap:

"You mistook my love and patience for stupidity, I may have been your fool because I loved you but I will no longer be your fool"
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2008
Fri, 03-09-2012 - 3:04pm
I have spoke the very words you wrote..aerial. today is a struggle day for me...thinking of what once was and now isn't. And in reality was is not is for the best!! Hugs!
Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
Sat, 03-10-2012 - 8:14pm
Aww, I'm sorry you had a rough day - but I'm glad that you are okay.

Was today any better for you?

Big hugs,

Kim

    

Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
Sat, 03-10-2012 - 8:15pm
How are you doing today, Beach? Hanging in?

Big hugs,

Kim

    

Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
Sat, 03-10-2012 - 8:15pm
'Dessa baby,

You rock. :)

(In case I haven't told you that in a while.)

xoxoxo

Kim

    

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-19-2011
Sun, 03-11-2012 - 9:58pm
Hi Kim,

I am ok today. Sorry the delay in replying. I am just seeing this now.

I still think about him. It's normal. I still don't miss him. I just remember the memories. I do get angry at him. I get angry that I should have left sooner. I went back several times before I was done. DUMB move.

Thank you for checking in.
Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
Tue, 03-13-2012 - 12:06pm
Hi again aerial,

Dumb is a bad word! :)

Please don't be so hard on yourself, honey.

xoxoxo

Kim