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Registered: 10-23-2012
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Sat, 11-03-2012 - 7:51pm

Thank goodness for this board. I have been reading for a while. Wanting to post. My story is like some of yours. Had an affair with a man I was totally in love with. It ended about a month ago after his wife discovered it. He then stopped all contact with me. Nothing Since then. That has been the hardest part. How can someone go from "I want to spend the ready of my life with you" to nothing! I have been trying to go on with my life. But my mind is constantly remembering. Any advice on stopping the obsessive thoughts? It is like I am stuck there. and I feel like his ability to just drop me makes it seem like I was nothing to him. My best friend says he is just a coward and trying to save his rear. I just wish I didn't care.