Over or not, & what to do.
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|Tue, 04-24-2012 - 4:33pm|
My 1st post on this board, though I did post a few weeks back on the EAS board, but I feel my affair is not exactly over as such, so am here!
Brief info on my situation, am married with teenager from previous marriage, I had been having an affair for past 9 months with a colleague who I work with & had to travel with regularly. About a month ago we got partially found out by my husband who also contacted AP's wife. Although I wanted to be with AP I played down my feelings for him to my H to try to keep the situation under control. Anyway the outcome of this is one month on since D-Day my H is v keen to stay with me & get things back to how they were, we have been to MC, but although he is a decent & good man I feel that I have transferred my feelings to someone else and so feelings of affection/love/romance etc for my H have gone. My H travels a fair bit himself for work & I like it when he's away & don't miss him at all.
In the meantime AP's wife although angry for a day has apparently not mentioned anything since & just has been carrying on as normal, although in a bit of a bad mood.
I now feel in limbo, it's not one thing or another. When we were found out I told AP I wanted to leave & be with him, he'd always said he wanted this, but was concerned that for us to be together would mean destroying all the other parts of his life,