Reminders Everywhere

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Registered: 10-25-2009
Reminders Everywhere
Sun, 03-18-2012 - 8:57pm

I have been NC for 7months now...lately it just seems there are reminders of him everywhere..from the radio, to a song popping up in my head for no reason, to having dreams about him now and then too.

Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
Mon, 03-19-2012 - 11:24am
Hi roses,

How are you doing so far today? Has the wave of reminders backed off a bit? I hope it has.

I so wish that healing were a straight line - and that once you had passed a certain point, there wouldn't be any reminders of it in the future. But it does seem to come and go, unfortunately.

I hope that the intensity isn't so strong, though - and that you find that you are able to get through the waves a little easier, and a little faster each time they happen.