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|Thu, 12-27-2012 - 3:59pm|
Sorry. It is not letting me reply. i thought it was jsut my phone but I am posting from my desktop today. Huge sigh.
Anyway, here is what I had tyoed in reply to your breaking NC after 4 months thread.....
Hi sweetheart. My xAP broke NC after 4 months last fall. It led to 3 months of "trying to be friends" again and was unbelievably painful.
Get back up on the NC horse. It's terribly, terribly hard I know, but what is the alternative? You already know the A does not work for you.
I used to remind myself of this all the time. It did not work for me. I can't go back there.
And now I am very nearly a year NC (Dec 30!) and, while it still hurts, it is *so much better* than it was.
Don't hurt yourself anymore. Commit to the NC again, don't drag yourself through heart break again for 3 months like I did.
Much strength and love to you