Roll call time!

Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
Roll call time!
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Fri, 04-27-2012 - 12:27pm

Hey babies!

Guess what time it is?

    

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-12-2012
Fri, 04-27-2012 - 12:46pm

Hi Kim

yes I read every day and have posted twice you replied to mine yesterday. " destruction"

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-19-2011
Fri, 04-27-2012 - 12:57pm
Hey it's me again.

I'm miss... married 7 years with one young child and another one cooking.

I fell in love with a completely off-limits man in my life 5 years ago, confessed at the 4 year mark, and we had a 4 month PA that ended nearly a year ago. Taught me that anything is possible and nobody is unattainable. Just about total NC since except for some insignificant emails that dwindled and eventually stopped. He was a SM at the time, who knows now? He was cheating on a pretty new girlfriend with me.

I had a couple of rebound situations but I consider this first A to be the one that I still deal with and the others are forgotten.

Had a partial D-Day, meaning H doesn't know just how far the A went, but he knew enough to cause plenty of damage. He only knows of the first one. I have no idea if xAP(s) had D-Day. We are doing well now but I found the board through an online search for affair help last fall when I realized how much I was still secretly struggling,

Today began roughly but I came here to talk about it and already feel better. I am very distracted at work, brain is mush, pretty useless today.
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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-11-2012
Fri, 04-27-2012 - 1:13pm

Hello Kim, Pleased to meet you,

MW, xAP MM, no DDay.

Community Leader
Registered: 08-25-2006
Fri, 04-27-2012 - 2:31pm

What good timing!

Serenity
Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
Fri, 04-27-2012 - 3:23pm
Hi Obi, thanks for chiming in. :)

So I know that you have a lot going on in the marriage, with the d-day and all of those issues - but how are you doing with the affair and the ending stuff?

Wishing you all the best,

Kim

    

Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
Fri, 04-27-2012 - 3:25pm
You came here to talk about it and you feel better.

If I knew how to put that in some giant, fancy, blinking graphic font at the top of the page, I would. It could be our board mantra. Or theme song. Or something.

:)

Kim


    

Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
Fri, 04-27-2012 - 3:31pm
Hi happy!

(BTW - in case I haven't mentioned it lately - your name change is the BEST. Simply because it lets me say "hi happy!" on a regular basis, and it makes me smile.)

So...do you want to talk about the M stuff at all? Cuz we can, you know. If you want. :)

I'm happy you're feeling better today. Is it okay if I use your saying that as some sort of testimonial, for the magical powers of our chat room? Would that be okay? Oh oh oh - do you want to be our spokesperson for the benefits of the chat room? I was going to say our paid spokesperson...but that doesn't seem right.

OR...I would pay you in jellybeans? Since I still have um, threeorfourbagsofthem. Not that I stocked up after Easter or am still hoarding them or anything.



Kim

RANDOM P.S. TO NO ONE AND EVERYONE:

70-something views and four of you have responded. *sob*


    

Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
Fri, 04-27-2012 - 3:35pm
Lovely to see you my friend, as always. :)

Hope things are going well on your board - I keep meaning to pop over there but then, ooooooh, something shiny. I will get there though. Just to assure myself that you're doing as well as you sound like you are. :)

Hugs and kisses to you and yours, Serenity -

Kim


    

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-22-2011
Fri, 04-27-2012 - 3:43pm
Hi. I'm Lulu. MW (12 yrs). Two kids. Had a year long A with a SW that technically ended more than a year ago but really ended with NC starting last June. I started at EAS and wandered over here a few months later.

I'm doing well today. I have been reflecting a lot lately on how awesome it is to no longer feel the constant stress and guilt of lying and hiding and living two lives half-way. I'm also feelin a bit feisty today, so if you need me to kick anyone's a$$ for you or anything just let me know. ;)
Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
Fri, 04-27-2012 - 3:50pm
Just so you know -

If I had *any* artistic ability whatsoever, right now, I would be drawing a comic all about the adventures of Admiral Feisty and Captain PMS.

Wouldn't that make a great comic?

You might be feisty today. Me? I am RANDOM.

Smooches,

Kim

    

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