ten years on the effects of my affair still affects me
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|Wed, 06-11-2014 - 5:13pm|
I so wish that i could back and change what i did. basically i was unhappy in my marriage, my husband was a bully i met someone who was also unhappy with their wife and
we quickly moved inwith each other when spouses found out. We had four children between us the youngest then was my son who was 15.
Ten years later we are married although i am ashamed to admit not happily, after all the pain that we caused to so many others the same problems exist.
We are now grandparents and have to attend family events, this weekend i have to face my husbands ex wife again and i so dread it as she is so nasty to me. it is so embarrrasssing as even people who have recently come into our family will know that i am the scarlet woman. strangely my husband does not get this from his side or my side, everyone just seems to accept what he did but not me. His ex wifes family talk to him but ignore me . i so dont want to go to this event.
it seems that i will never be able to get away from what i did.