UGH! Why am I still mad?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-19-2011
UGH! Why am I still mad?
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Wed, 03-21-2012 - 4:19pm

xAP had the nerve to send me a text a couple of days ago.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2010
Wed, 03-21-2012 - 8:54pm

If you are done, then block his number and really be done.

Block and walk, it really works.

I know there is always the temptation to engage just a little and all it does is leave you hurt.

Get stronger, you'll be happy.

We only miss what could have been. I know I don't miss what it really was.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-19-2011
Wed, 03-21-2012 - 9:07pm
I cannot block his number. I have tried but I can't.

I have walked. I have walked away and stayed away. I'm still mad.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-21-2007
Wed, 03-21-2012 - 9:56pm

If you really want to let this go "can't" is not an excuse.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
Thu, 03-22-2012 - 12:09am

Perhaps it is simply because you guys went NC several times, and it didn't stick...so he figures it won't stick this time either. Can't blame a guy for trying if that is what you've taught him.

By staying NC this time, you will show him that you mean business and hopefully he'll eventually get the hint.


Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
Sun, 03-25-2012 - 11:27am
Hi aerial,

How are you doing today?

I don't think that being mad is such a bad thing, really. I think it's just all part of the process of working through everything. I mean - it's okay to be mad, it's just another step.

Hugs,

Kim

    

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-19-2011
Sun, 03-25-2012 - 12:22pm
Hi Kim, Thanks for checking in. I'm much better. Thank you the understanding and support. Funny how people just strike at you on this board not even knowing your entire situation. I know it's just part of the process, but I still have my angry moments. I just want to get to the point of indifference. Sigh!
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2010
Mon, 03-26-2012 - 1:36am

I thought about changing my number but never did can you???

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-13-2012
Mon, 03-26-2012 - 12:37pm
Sounds like you are doing really well being able to manage contact without changing your number or something like that. It's all about where you find comfort and strength...not as much about where others find it. Keep on discovering you and you will be fine. Hope today is better for you.
"No one can make you feel lnferior with out your consent" ~Eleanor Roosevelt
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-19-2011
Mon, 03-26-2012 - 1:27pm

Thank you!

Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
Tue, 03-27-2012 - 9:14pm
Good deal. :)

Strong is beautiful!

Hugs,

Kim