Can it come back?
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|Tue, 04-22-2014 - 11:42am|
Long after DD, no remaining love for X-AP. Yet I can still not feel affection for my husband. I realize that he hurt me, I realize that I used that hurt to justify my affair. After DD I felt the crushing weight of hurting my husband, I felt guilt and shame. I looked at my affair with clear eyes and saw the who, what and whys. My real question is, do you feel my love for my husband can return? I care about him, but he doesn't meet my love language. He wants to stay together and is severely co-dependant on me. Can I ever love him again or did I mess that up completely when I let another man in?
I would like to hear hear if anyone ever recaptured that love, after an affair or did you just go back to what was comfortable? Did your guilt keep you in your marriage?