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|Fri, 12-20-2013 - 10:01pm|
Hello! I'm new here, and I guess I need to vent....I didn't know where to post this.
I've been with my SO 4 years. He has been separated the entire time. He plans to divorce his wife one day, but he just hasn't yet. I know he will never go back to his wife. He and i have a great relationship, and I have a great relationship with his kids. He loves me, and I love him. I know he will never leave me. We vacation together, spend holidays together, and stay together often when he does not have his kids.
Now here's my situation, I found out he is talking with at least one other woman. He says they are just acquaintances, and they met at a business convention. However, I discovered that they text multiple times a day during the day. On the days he isn't with me, he is texting her....even at night. I accidentally discovered that he made a sexual video for her (he was saying her name in the video...not mine). He told me he has not cheated on me, and I am the one he loves.
Why would someone who loves me so much talk to another woman in a sexual way? What should I do? Could this just be a phase that he is going through, and he will overcome it soon?
Any thoughts or suggestions will be helpful. Thank you in advance.