Ended it this morning...
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|Wed, 03-26-2014 - 12:56pm|
I was with someone for 5 months and broke it off about 3 weeks ago. He told me he was separated with divorce pending when we met. Somewhere along the liine that changed, or at least that's what he said. I initially broke it off because i suspected that he and his wife were trying to reconcile. He kept texting me wanting to see me and spend time. We hung out for a couple of weeks.
The other night I accidentally saw a picture of a pair of boobs on his phone while he was searching for something else. After much confronting, he confessed that his wife sent him the picture as a joke for Mardi Gras (beads were involved, they're both from Louisiana, inside joke).
This morning I was finally able to crack the password on his phone (yeah, I know, but you'll see in a minute why). I read a few text exchanges between him and his wife to figure out what's really been going on. Not only were they trying to reconcile, but she knows about his multiple girlfriends.
So after we both finished getting ready for work, I sat him down and told him that last night would be the final night we would spend together. He asked me why. I told him he knows why. No fuss, no muss, no angry exchange. Just a delcaration and a few minutes holding each other and saying goodbye.
I'm ok. I just needed to vent.