Flirting with a man who's also in a relationship
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|Mon, 12-17-2012 - 6:14pm|
I'm at the end of the relationship with my husband and it's partly due to the feelings I've been having about another man, feelings that I had for a while and that I thought had disappeared. I've known for a while that my hubby and I are not the best match. We differ on some really big issues, and we never discussed them before marriage. We've had talks about divorce and we were going to go through with it, unitl he said he'd change everything to help our rel. I accepted this, because, prior to this, he'd always blamed me for everything that went wrong. So after that talk, I was fine, me and my hubby were getting along, and I had accepted my 'friend' as a friend only (which is what we are currently). But lately, I noticed my emotions towards my 'friend' have changed and are very strong. I've acted rather impulsively - I asked him if he could meet up with me after work one day - he was too 'pooped'. Then the next night, I sent him a photo of me all dressed up (I looked good) for my x-mas party. He didn't respond to the photo - and now I don't know what to do. I asked him what he felt about me sending him this photo of me, but he didn't respond (via text).
ugh! what am I doing!! this is torture and I feel embarrassed. My 'friend' had a gf, but he has also been flirtatious with me. I guess the real problem is is that i really want him...