Why am I in this
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|Sun, 02-16-2014 - 1:32pm|
was attacked at work by a manager, he grabbed me and dragged me to a private area and touched me until I could break free.I reported the assault, and as a result I was forced to transfer and have been dropped by all my friends The manager received permanent employment status, even though he admitted to everything. . A year after I was at my new job one of my co workers and I became friends, my husband and I have a long distance marriage. He encouraged me to hang out with this man. Eventually it lead to a sexual relationship. I liked how protective he was of me at work, he also would listen to me cry and talk about the attack.
I now have two men who love and adore me. My husband does not want me to end my "friendship" .
He feels that he has not been able to reach me since the attack and this man does. He will never divorce me and feels that my other relationship will run its course. He enjoys the protection and love this man gives me and knows the other man loves me.
I am confused, I feel guilty. I have spoken to clergy who tell me to end the affair because of the moral violation. I no longer even enjoy sex with anyone.
I was content in my marriage prior to the attack. I havent felt "normal" and I don't know what to do.
I am now working with a therapist and she tells me to wait.
Does anyone have any experience, advice?