3 Days in and not sure what to do

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Registered: 07-03-2008
3 Days in and not sure what to do
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Sun, 01-16-2011 - 6:54pm

Hi everyone, I am new to this board but not to ivillage boards.




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Registered: 04-16-2008
Mon, 01-17-2011 - 1:11am
I don't understand WHY HE has to be the one to pick her up and WHY they have to stay at the same hotel. I'm sorry but this sounds like a perfect set up for another drunken ONS. I can't imagine I'd be the least bit comfortable with this arrangement. All I can suggest is to keep yourself as busy as possible until he comes home.
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Registered: 08-07-2007
Mon, 01-17-2011 - 3:43pm

I'm sorry you are going through this.

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Registered: 07-03-2008
Mon, 01-17-2011 - 10:08pm

If I was not familiar with his company I would really question him having to pick her up and the hotel situation as well.




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Registered: 07-18-2010
Tue, 01-18-2011 - 6:31am

I am so sorry you are on the rollercoaster ride of your life...it does suck. I am older than you and my situation is different...same OW 2x during a 25 year period, not a co-oworker and not a one night stand, but the trauma is the same and I do understand the travel issue. My H used work travel as an excuse to see here last year and that sticks with

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Registered: 11-20-2001
Tue, 01-18-2011 - 8:27am
I'm thinking your H won't be hooking up again. Bringing home a STD is pretty serious and he should feel like scum about it. He should even tell the OW that she gave him a STD. Why let her infect someone else and so on and so on.

I am sorry for your pain. I have been there with my X being with a co-worker too but he walked out on me and my family (2 small kids). Cheaters live in a fog that all is ok when they are doing the deed. Its messed up. Definitely do therapy and make sure he shows you how much he wants the M to work.
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Registered: 08-07-2007
Tue, 01-18-2011 - 9:07am

It sounds as if your husband is remorseful and he is doing his best to comfort you.