I suppose I just need some friendly advice.
I'm sorry you feel so hurt. Betrayals are so painful. It's understandable that you are concerned about the 21 year old. Society makes it tough for
You say you want closure, but I don't know if you will ever get it. Closure would mean that you get the whole truth from him about what happened. You have never gotten that and likely you never will. He gets mad when you bring it up. Classic way for the cheaters to avoid the subject, get mad so you drop it.
It makes you wonder if you really did know the whole ttruth, would you be able to stay with him? Kind of a Pandoras Box, maybe you don't want to open it?
I'm more than 3 years out from the horror of my discovery day. My head has cleared and my strength has returned.
One year is not enough time for you to have recovered your equilibrium. The good news is, you're half way there: it takes two years. Trust me on this. You're going to be OK.
You will never achieve closure on this; you will never find out the complete truth; you will never really find out why it happened. What will happen is that you will begin to accept that it happened, accept that you were not in control of it, and accept that you
Anyone who wants to forgive their cheating spouse another chance and move on, should probably stop coming to this site.
WOW!!! In response to Tracyrenee1234.
your point of view is much appreciated, it needs to be said
this is a support board which should support any decision the BS makes - staying or leaving
Peace & Strength to you I hope your life will be much happier without the Drama King lol (I am sure it will be)
Ditto to what goddess and peacyma said!