Another email from OW
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|Sun, 05-31-2009 - 4:33pm|
After D Day #2 I made a few changes in our relationship. A few changes:
*I will be able to call him ANYTIME without attitude or judgement.
*I will have access to phone/email/bank account (online)
*Obviously- no contact with OW
... there are others... but those are a few.
I have been checking his phone and email accounts for some time now (without his knowledge) and have seen nothing from OW. My H doesn't know that I go behind his back to check the accounts/phone. Although not said flat out- it was sort of understood that I would tell him when I checked anything. Even if it was moments before.
However, today he got a message from OW. It said that she was sad to have him out of her life. "What am I supposed to do now?" (I have a few suggestions there, tramp!) She wishes they could meet to talk about their breakup. She has so many feelings about it that she thinks he should know. She still loves him. Etc. Etc.
I thought of a plan to get him to read it in front of me. But I'm pretty sure he'll see right through it. (And I don't really care. I'm supposed to have access to these.)
Do you think that I should ask him to respond to her with me? (As in, we both draft up an email and send it off.) Or do you think I should ask him to delete it? Or should I just ignore and pretend I never saw it/not talk to him about it?