Another Possible Affair - Contact Him
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|Wed, 02-10-2010 - 11:22am|
A few years ago I suspected that my wife was either having an affair or at the least, an inappropriate relationship with a male coworker. I discovered some very suspicious emails. They looked bad, but not so much in a way that she couldn’t explain them away. She agreed to end all contact with him. She ended up losing her job. Well, everyone knows that I did discover my wife’s affair that ended in October and she came completely clean, or so I think. But I always suspected, something happened with this one. Well, it has been 3 years now and I have kept his email address. My wife has not had contact with him since she left her job. So, I opened an email address nearly identical to her old one that she closed and sent him an email just two days ago. He responded immediately. I am trying to trap him into telling me what happened.
“how are you? I havent’ heard from you in forever. I miss working with you. I’m sure you miss it to. We sure had some fun times. I bet you would agree. I bet you could think of some things that you enjoyed when we worked together. I bet I left a smile on your face more than once. Write soon.”
He then responded
“oh my goodness, I miss you sooooooooooo much. You bet you sure did put a smile on my face, more than once!!!! I really miss working with you. We need to talk more. Write me soon. I can’t wait to talk to you again.”
So then I responded.
“really? I put that big of a smile on your face that you still remember it after 3 years? Tell me what was your favorite. What did I do for you that you liked so much? Tell me and we’ll see again. LOL. I can’t wait to talk to you again.”
So, I left it at that. I don’t know what happened but I suspected something happened more than my wife is letting on. I have a desire to know the truth. I’m afraid though that once I open this can of worms, I won’t like what I have to hear if he comes back with what I think happened. But, I must know the truth. If nothing happened, I will be so relieved, but I have been living with this thought for 3 years and feel I’ll never have closure until I know the truth about this. I hope he comes back with something completely innocent, but anything else, after all I have gone through over the last two months, might just kill my heart. But I have to know.
Am I just asking for trouble? Wouldn’t you want to know?