I appreciate your writing in here, and that you seem to have cleared some of your “fog”, even if you’re not completely out of denial yet.
How sad for you and your children that you involve them in your affair!! You are on the wrong board!
I'm interested in knowing what your intentions are for coming on this Board and consistently belittling BSs.
Obviously Z no one on this board is willing to accept that affairs are not all cookie cutter.
I do not need to justify my love affair chijd. The anger and hate being spewed from the BS would be better served if directed towards what is lacking in the marriage then at "the other woman who means so little"--according to all who replied.
We encourage everyone to share their thoughts and feelings on Betrayed Spouses Support - this has been an interesting thread with lots of helpful feedback and perspectives offered.
"I do not need to justify my love affair chijd."