For a betrayer

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-08-2009
For a betrayer
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Thu, 06-17-2010 - 10:23am

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-03-2009
Tue, 07-20-2010 - 1:13pm

"I blame my husband fully for the A. He was the married one and should have said no. Sadly, OW was the one he used. I know my life is in tatters still at the moment but I am sure hers is too. And I suppose I won, as us BS usually do. My H chose me and he did not have too."

...I agree 100% with your thoughts on this...

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2007
Sat, 07-24-2010 - 11:16am

Is it only me who is irritated by other women coming on here and complimenting the betrayed on their valuable insights and peppering their post with lols as if we were discussing the wrong color lipstick?


Do any of you other women, I wonder, really grasp the seriousness of adultery? Families are torn apart, jobs and health care are lost, many women and children suffer terrible financial consequences, often being thrown below the poverty line as a result. Innocent men, women and children suffer the most horrific emotional trauma which invariably lasts a LIFETIME. And you come to this board and laugh out loud !!!! WTF


And it's happening ALL THE TIME. There's a constant stream of men and women writing here in desperate hope that someone, somewhere can offer something, anything, any word of comfort because they simply have no idea how to regain their equilibrium. It makes me want to weep.


"Over at EAS we act like we are in AA. We sponsor each other. Sadly, I bet all your Hs and the Xaps out there have no one like that...That's why they go looking for their next victim ....."


They do have someone like that, they're called their wives. Once the cat's out of the bag, you'd be surprised at details

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2007
Sat, 07-24-2010 - 7:11pm

Alice.........................................you are in wonderland........................................


iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2007
Sat, 07-24-2010 - 11:26pm
Do please save your sordid little story for a more appropriate board.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Sat, 07-24-2010 - 11:57pm
I believe if a woman a man is attracted to relentlessly pursues a man, that his little head will eventually take over the thinking for the big head in most cases. Unless the man is very secure within himself and doesn't need that ego boost and loves and respects his wife enough not to cross that line.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-08-2009
Sun, 07-25-2010 - 11:18am
There is a board titled "All Sides of the Affair" which would be much more appropriate for your purpose. This is a support board for women who are hurting. Not a place for these women to have to debate the OW.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-24-2009
Sun, 07-25-2010 - 2:05pm
why is this thread on this board??? Isnt there an "all sides" board? I cant believe this has been allowed to have 70+ replies without it being deleted. I thought MAS were not allowed to post on BS board and vice versa......
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2007
Sun, 07-25-2010 - 2:47pm

love your expression CHEATED DOWN.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2008
Sun, 07-25-2010 - 4:46pm
Gosh, that could be a really good non-fictional book there, hope everybody reads it.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2008
Sun, 07-25-2010 - 6:16pm

I know, I know.

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