"I blame my husband fully for the A. He was the married one and should have said no. Sadly, OW was the one he used. I know my life is in tatters still at the moment but I am sure hers is too. And I suppose I won, as us BS usually do. My H chose me and he did not have too."
...I agree 100% with your thoughts on this...
Is it only me who is irritated by other women coming on here and complimenting the betrayed on their valuable insights and peppering their post with lols as if we were discussing the wrong color lipstick?
Do any of you other women, I wonder, really grasp the seriousness of adultery? Families are torn apart, jobs and health care are lost, many women and children suffer terrible financial consequences, often being thrown below the poverty line as a result. Innocent men, women and children suffer the most horrific emotional trauma which invariably lasts a LIFETIME. And you come to this board and laugh out loud !!!! WTF
And it's happening ALL THE TIME. There's a constant stream of men and women writing here in desperate hope that someone, somewhere can offer something, anything, any word of comfort because they simply have no idea how to regain their equilibrium. It makes me want to weep.
"Over at EAS we act like we are in AA. We sponsor each other. Sadly, I bet all your Hs and the Xaps out there have no one like that...That's why they go looking for their next victim ....."
They do have someone like that, they're called their wives. Once the cat's out of the bag, you'd be surprised at details
Alice.........................................you are in wonderland........................................
love your expression CHEATED DOWN.
I know, I know.