Yep, everybody has "childhood issues", but not everybody sees them as an excuse to do whatever they want, either.
I think it’s pretty apparent that a LOT of people who pursue their own whims and pleasures at the expense of others have deep-seated issues; the thing that’s important is getting to the root of the problem and fixing it.
We can all say “sorry” over one thing or another, but unless the issue is resolved within it’s going to remain a powder keg.
Oh, JD, I guess I hadn't paid enough attention - your mess is so similar to ours it blows my mind.
The night I last posted on this thread (before today), my H said, “Come outside with me.
WHY must you always hit and run like that?
I know, I know.