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|Sat, 04-24-2010 - 2:20pm|
I posted a discussion under Rebuilding Rollercoaster about my H canoodling w/a women in our house 5 years after his A. Well . . . we just went to our son's soccer game and guess who was there! The girl! Now, I totally blamed my H for his behavior - he is 13 years older than her, she wasn't married, etc. etc. Well, it appeared she was there to meet up with the father of one of my son's friends! I saw him rubbing her back during the game! His wife wasn't there obviously. They have 4 children.
I am in a total state of confusion and feel just like the lady who knows about her co-worker.
How can people flaunt their crappy behavior in public and cause distress in others who witness it and care about the wife, kids, etc.
I have been nauseated all morning . . . I feel like the whole 'fear of telling' the wounded spouse, allows the affair to just keep on keeping on - others feel distress due to the selfish behavior of the ones having the affair.