CHEAT

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Registered: 02-06-2010
CHEAT
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Sat, 02-06-2010 - 12:34pm

i have been with my bf a year, and found out he has been cheating on me. He has been seeing this other girl for 3 years now just for casual sex, and continued with it whilst being with me. I have completely fallen for him i dont know what to do. He says he wants to be with me, she asked to see him one last time for closure. I said no but he went anyway and i found out he ended up having sex with her AGAIN. which is why i didnt want him to go. The thing is she got pregnant by him and lost the baby just before she was going to have a abortion just before he met me, so they have this connection i think. He blames her for the sex and she made him feel bad about the lost baby. I dont know what to believe. I dont know if i can trust him again, or should give him another shot, when i deserve soo much better.


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Registered: 01-28-2010
In reply to: han34
Sat, 02-06-2010 - 11:44pm

I hear you, the same thing happened to me, minus the pregancy. He needs to break off contact forever. I'm engaged now and just found out 2 mo ago about the cheating that happened 1+ yr ago.


do you really love him for who he is? I mean deep inside, can you live with this forever, marry him etc? ask yourself that before you get in too deep... just advice, I am engaged now and really hope that I made the right choice.