My wife and
I feel like I am going to explode.
I am sorry for you pain. I can understand you want to hold it together for the kids.It all has to do with respect. If you act now to earn it you could put it all back together.it's not your fault she did this. just remember no one is perfect and she will point out your faults. Admit them calmly then tell her to clean up her act also. You two have built a life together with goals in mind. Ask her to join the team again. How you deal with the anger now, that is a question but if you point it at her this will take on a life of it's own and become about power. So be careful. I hope this was helpful. Again I am sorry you find yourself here.
I think you have misunderstood Frank's message to you.
Everything lost said is right on!
Great message beingquiet.