My wife and
I called myself being quiet because I have been being quiet for the most part except for the angry outbursts after a trigger.
Few things, first, she SEEMS to realize after yesterday how serious I am, and also how bad she screwed up.
Hope it works our for you, it's a roller coaster of emotions.
Hi. How horrible for you to find out what had been going on. In my case I know for certain that this guy is someone that she met through work and she just began working in this job within the last 3 years. So while I don't know how long she may have ultimately been unfaithful, I know this A is less than that time frame. For me, it hurts to know that she performed oral sex on this man, and hasn't done so with me for several years. That's the ultimate slap that she would please him in this way, but couldn't do so for me. I had no problem taking care of her (the thought of doing that and she may have had sex w him the day before, or who knows when is nasty) but yet she couldn't do that for me? But for this om? Wow. Far as my kids, I believe there's no chance they're anyone else's, we share too many charecteristics. I really don't doubt their mine, but if I did it wouldn't change that they are. I'm not involving them in her problems, they don't need to deal with what their mother has done. Anyway, I wish this was easier for all of us, but there is no answer, no insta-fix here. Our MC doesn't seem very effective, my wife wants to stick her head in the sand and try to go on with life and ignore everything is my impression, wife says no, but I only say what I see. So, yeah, I really wish things could go back to where ever it was that we lost each other, but it can't.
Well, I definitely agree with what you see.