Cheated on for real this time.

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Registered: 05-24-2005
Cheated on for real this time.
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Wed, 09-15-2010 - 4:42pm

My wife and

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Registered: 01-16-2008
Wed, 09-15-2010 - 5:05pm
Hi Dad
You are not stupid, trust can be a beautiful thing
Do not give any credence to her excuses and blame placed on you, she is messed up and this all falls on her and her character
She will come up with excuse after crazy nonsensical excuse to justify her behavior and they will be mean and hurtful
don't believe the attacks on you, you have kept your integrity
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Registered: 05-24-2005
Wed, 09-15-2010 - 5:15pm
Thanks.
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Registered: 01-16-2008
Wed, 09-15-2010 - 5:29pm
I can relate
my hubbys latest fling was/is a coworker and I told him days ago to get a counselor and he has not
Peace & Strength to you
take comfort in the fact that you have not done anything that you regret - I would rather be me than him
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Registered: 05-24-2005
Wed, 09-15-2010 - 5:55pm

I feel like I am going to explode.

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Registered: 06-05-2010
Wed, 09-15-2010 - 11:48pm

I am sorry for you pain. I can understand you want to hold it together for the kids.
It all has to do with respect. If you act now to earn it you could put it all back together.
it's not your fault she did this. just remember no one is perfect and she will point out your faults. Admit them calmly then tell her to clean up her act also. You two have built a life together with goals in mind. Ask her to join the team again. How you deal with the anger now, that is a question but if you point it at her this will take on a life of it's own and become about power. So be careful. I hope this was helpful. Again I am sorry you find yourself here.



Good luck



Frank

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Registered: 05-24-2005
Wed, 09-15-2010 - 11:58pm
Interesting.
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Registered: 04-07-2010
Thu, 09-16-2010 - 8:37am

Hi dadfor6,



I think you have misunderstood Frank's message to you.

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Registered: 05-24-2005
Thu, 09-16-2010 - 9:06am

Hi Lost

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Registered: 02-16-2010
Wed, 09-22-2010 - 3:27pm

Hi Dad,



Everything lost said is right on!

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Registered: 05-24-2005
Wed, 09-22-2010 - 4:49pm

Great message beingquiet.

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