Cheated on for real this time.
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Cheated on for real this time.
| Wed, 09-15-2010 - 4:42pm |
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You are not stupid, trust can be a beautiful thing
Do not give any credence to her excuses and blame placed on you, she is messed up and this all falls on her and her character
She will come up with excuse after crazy nonsensical excuse to justify her behavior and they will be mean and hurtful
don't believe the attacks on you, you have kept your integrity
my hubbys latest fling was/is a coworker and I told him days ago to get a counselor and he has not
Peace & Strength to you
take comfort in the fact that you have not done anything that you regret - I would rather be me than him
I feel like I am going to explode.
I am sorry for you pain. I can understand you want to hold it together for the kids.
It all has to do with respect. If you act now to earn it you could put it all back together.
it's not your fault she did this. just remember no one is perfect and she will point out your faults. Admit them calmly then tell her to clean up her act also. You two have built a life together with goals in mind. Ask her to join the team again. How you deal with the anger now, that is a question but if you point it at her this will take on a life of it's own and become about power. So be careful. I hope this was helpful. Again I am sorry you find yourself here.
Good luck
Frank
Hi dadfor6,
I think you have misunderstood Frank's message to you.
Hi Lost
Hi Dad,
Everything lost said is right on!
Great message beingquiet.
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