Communication Breakdown/I Hate Men
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|Mon, 01-02-2012 - 4:23pm|
What is it with the excuse that men can't talk about their feelings?
It's only been a few weeks since I found out the details of what he's been doing. We've been going to counseling. While we are there it feels like we are making progress. When I first found out and he was spilling his guts, he was on a role with the talking, open communication, he even said a few things that made me think "wow, maybe he is really trying to change?" And now...clamshell. He's not saying hardly anything. I say things to him, tell him how I feel, what things pop into my head... and it's like crickets. He says NOTHING in response. Not even, "I know, I am sorry." THIS MAKES ME SO MAD. T told him last time that he should not expect this to be an open and shut case, that this is an ongoing conversation. Apparently he hopes I'll just get over it, I have no idea what he is thinking and it is driving me insane. I feel like I am expressing my feelings to a brick wall.