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Registered: 02-03-2009
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Tue, 02-03-2009 - 10:05pm

Hi Everyone,


My H and I just moved to

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Registered: 10-09-2008
In reply to: brokenali
Thu, 02-05-2009 - 2:22pm

Hi, Ali.

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Registered: 02-02-2009
In reply to: brokenali
Thu, 02-05-2009 - 2:45pm

Ali,


First let me say I'm sorry for what you're going through.

 


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Registered: 02-03-2009
In reply to: brokenali
Sun, 02-15-2009 - 1:24pm
Thank you for your reply.
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Registered: 02-17-2009
In reply to: brokenali
Tue, 02-17-2009 - 4:33am

I also caught my husband messing around on the computer with people, this time

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Registered: 02-06-2009
In reply to: brokenali
Tue, 02-24-2009 - 3:59pm
Wow, it's nice not to feel like the Lone Ranger. I wonder how many marriages have broken up over porn on Craig's List? I caught mine trawling for she-males. I didn't even know what that was until I saw the pictures. Over the course of 5 years he's put up personal ads on I don't know how many websites looking for that specific thing, but swears he's not gay. He leaves a blazing trail that is so easy to stumble across. That's how I found out the first 1-3 times. I would go on his computer to do something simple and see something out of the ordinary. I'd follow the lead out of curiosity and WHAM!! more than I wanted to know. We've been through 4 rounds of marriage counseling, split up for the 3rd and last time. He always promises he'll quit. He went to Sex Addicts Anonymous for a year and as soon as he got his year chip he started doing it again. I had installed (at his request) accountability software that sent me reports when he visited nefarious websites. So he found that Craig's List didn't come up in the report and that became his favorite spot. He couldn't post ads to sex hook up sites without me knowing, so he joined every social networking site known to man (facebook, myspace, reunion, classmates, etc..) and put that he was single looking to date. Now, and this is rich!, he asks me why I didn't stop him and nag him to go to SAA. I told him that I thought I was marrying a man and not another kid to raise. So somehow he thinks this is my fault.
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Registered: 04-01-2007
In reply to: brokenali
Tue, 02-24-2009 - 5:09pm
Listen closely to what chijd put in her post because its all true.Im an old timer who stops by from time to time.The cheating partner be they man or women do try the 180 degree B.S. in an attempt to shift the blame in your direction,also it lowers your opinion of yourself even more.Dont fall for it!! Listen to what she posted about protecting your self from S.T.D.s and dont just insist he get checked but you should be checked as well...I dont like pointing this out but you could have been given something by him already and not know it!You should think long and hard about rebuilding with someone like this but thats your choice.Gods peace and blessings on you,your family and your friends.Wuzzy