So I am new here. My
He is remorseful and he would go if I wanted him to. I know that it is going to sound crazy but I want to go by myself before I have him join. He is very remorseful completely has changed and every request I make he gladly does. We would have the married I have always wanted I just can't get past this. I want to but, it seems everyday to get worse. For example I have been crying all night I just can't stop. Everything reminds me of those two. The thought that they work together which it what the graphic texting was about just about kills me. I just want to give up its like after
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.
This is one of those acceptance deals.
Hi guys thanks so much for the encouragement I could realy use it right now. He really can't get transfered because if anyone finds out why and she would tell everyone he
I am going thru this a 2nd time and it is brutal. My advice is that you both go for individual counseling(you for support, he to figure out why he did this) and then go together for help in rebuilding . He absolutely MUST go b/c he will do this again if he doesn't understand why. If he says he'll go this is a good sign.
Read the book"After the Affair" by Janis Abrahms Spring. It's very helpful and have him read it to.