Devasted

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Registered: 01-29-2010
Devasted
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Fri, 01-29-2010 - 8:48pm

I need some uplifting and encouragment. My H told me 5 months ago that he had A with a married women and she is pregnant and the baby is due in feb. I am so devastasted angry and upset. The sad part is she is having a girl i always wanting a girl. I have a son now but i want to girl also. I can't believe he would do something like this. Back in 2008 I was not feeling the love and the support from him so i distance myself. My son has a sppech delay and i am stress about that. I can't even tell no one because my friends and especially our family will be devasted. I love him so much. part of me wants to leave and parts of me wants to stay. He wants us to repair our marriage he wants to have a baby. I need help please what to do. I am so stress out i began to have gray hair on head and acne so bad i am tired of crying every other week and i am tired of fighting and arguing with my H

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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: skye101bran
Sat, 01-30-2010 - 8:14am
Please don't throw another baby in the mix just because your H now wants another baby with you.
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Registered: 06-25-2007
In reply to: skye101bran
Sun, 01-31-2010 - 3:28pm

I agree with what Lily (lovemydog) wrote you... seek out legal counsel and make sure there is