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|Tue, 05-04-2010 - 10:20pm|
Hello, I need help in getting an idea of how what I have seen from my husband would seem to others. I am confused and am looking for anyone else's viewpoint.
During a time my husband and I talked about a divorce (because he didn't think we had enough sex). I found a hair clip I had never seen on the toilet in my bathroom. I asked him about it later because I was shocked and didn't believe he would be so bold as to bring someone home while I was out for several hours. When I did, he said he didn't know and that maybe one of our young daughters had gotten it from his mom's and put it there. Doesn't make sense, his mom has short hair and his niece who lives there I don't think would wear that type of clip. Also, I've never seen my daughters wear it and they have no reason to go in my bathroom.
A month or two later (after we reconciled), I was browsing the web and started typing a website name and a website name came on (like it had been visited on that computer) that said something like "horny hookups" or something along those lines, as to sex dates. I asked him about it while I was on the computer. He seemed embarrassed but insisted it was probably from another website he had visited that wasn't about hooking up. And he was unusually nice to me the next several days.
What do you think??? He would never admit it if he did have sex with someone else, but I don't have any harder evidence to make him fess up. Would you think he did hook up withe someone else?