I had my husband go get the full panel done for STDs before I would even let him touch me with a condom. He said it was extremely painful, as something has to get inserted somewhere.... = D
Of course, our circumstances are different than most on this site, as he was out of town on business for the full extent of the affair, which ended before he came back home. If you were active with your H while the A was going on, definitely get tested as well.
I didnt go for the whole range of tests.
My H resisted at first; saying, "I don't have anything!" and "The odds are rare."