do I leave him?

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Registered: 01-24-2010
do I leave him?
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Sun, 01-24-2010 - 9:33pm
I have been married just over 2 years and have
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Mon, 01-25-2010 - 7:54am

Your H shows no remorse at all for what he did and doesn't accept responsibility - he blames it on you.

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Registered: 01-24-2010
Mon, 01-25-2010 - 8:27pm
Thank you for your response.
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Registered: 11-20-2001
Mon, 01-25-2010 - 9:46pm
Betrayal is such a roller coaster ride. You have to know it is okay to have a mix of emotions from being sad, mad and beyond angry. If the H doesn't want to hear it, then you probably won't be able to rebuild. Do you think you can trust your H again? Is he always jealous of your relationship with your daughter? You can try MC if you want to stay. If you are staying because you don't want to feel you made a mistake, think of the example you are setting for your daughter and grandchild. If you plan on leaving, see a lawyer first so you know what your rights are. Best of luck!