Hi and Hugs...
I see a few things so bare with me for a second.
Greatly Missed, Never Ever Forgotten
I really thought about this before I responded.
thanks everyone for your responces, I didn't know there was another board. I just found this by doing a search on google. I know that some wont understand the lifestyle, and why there are rules in place, like training wheels I guess to kind of have a feel for how the other is going to react, to gain trust and eventually the bolts and tires get loosen and come off to what you are comfortable with. I am going to let this one go, and I have made a choice that swinging is not gonna work for us at this time, We need time to work on our relationship and get back to where we were before this happend. And he is okay with that.