drfaustus....

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drfaustus....
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Thu, 11-03-2011 - 5:09pm

Can't respond under your post, only like this.

 

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Thu, 11-03-2011 - 5:16pm
Thanks for responding. What does EA and PA mean? I'm not expecting much. He said he lied and told her he had a girlfriend and didn't say he was married, but that's still bad in my book. You don't mess with other people's SO, married or otherwise. That's disrespectful and wrong. I don't expect that type of person to own up to what they did, have morals, or tell the truth. It was worth a shot, though. It just makes me hate my husband more because I feel like it's his fault that I have to contact Ms. Scumbag because he lies all the time. If we do get a divorce, I'm going to have to buy him a plane ticket to back there, so they be gross scumbags together.
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Thu, 11-03-2011 - 5:30pm

PA stands for physical affair, meaning they did the deed.

 

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Thu, 11-03-2011 - 6:57pm
I am more mad at him than I am at her, of course. She wasn't my spouse and best friend who vowed never to betray me and to always love me. I still don't like her or respect her. I just want to know the truth, but trying to get it out of the parties responsible is like pulling teeth. It's so irritating. I know it's not my fault that he cheated. I still can't get over how I managed to marry such a douche bag. I thought he was one of the (very few) nice ones!
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Fri, 11-04-2011 - 12:45pm
I totally know how u feel. My husband comes across as this nice quiet guy and everyone loves him. Then I find out just how much he has lied to me and hurt me and I can't believe they are one and the same person. & for some reason, I still love him and am trying to make my marriage work. I want to believe he can change, but one more lie and I am done. i will know if he can still lie to me after seeing all the pain and hurt he has caused me that he truly doesn't care for me.