Drowning in Pain

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Registered: 05-28-2006
Drowning in Pain
Sun, 06-20-2010 - 2:19pm

It has been awhile since I have posted. My marriage or what I refer to as

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Registered: 01-16-2008
Sun, 06-20-2010 - 3:14pm
your post shows absolutely no upside to having him in your life
I would say stop enabling him to wreck you and your daughters financial future protect yourselves
this man needs to grow up take care of himself and learn that loved ones are not there to be abused
you need to make things better for yourself - no one else is going to save you BUT you
give you daughter at least one responsible parent to look up to
Peace & Strength to you
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Registered: 08-24-2007
Tue, 06-22-2010 - 8:15pm


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Registered: 04-16-2008
Tue, 06-22-2010 - 9:34pm
Honestly this doesn't even sound worth saving. He has checked out of the marriage and his relationship with his daughter, and doesn't even seem to care whether she has a roof over her head as long as he can excessively spend money (and ruin your credit while doing it) on what HE wants. Don't think your DD doesn't notice how dad has checked out of her life either, cause she does. You are basically supporting him and that's all he seems to care about anymore. And if he's out all nite like that and your not having sex, than I wouldn't doubt if he is sleeping around with other women too. He is not contributing anything emotionally or financially to the family, and honestly if I were you I would go see a lawyer.
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Registered: 09-09-2008
Wed, 06-23-2010 - 1:33am

Well, how nice for him, getting all his little ducks in a row like this.