Emotional Neglect

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2010
Emotional Neglect
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Tue, 07-13-2010 - 10:59pm
The past five years my wife has become more emotionally distant from me.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2007
In reply to: bh1125
Wed, 07-14-2010 - 9:17am

She is investing in other men and relationships. She is emotionally cheating on you (if not more). Her time, thought and energy are going elsewhere when you need her comfort and support.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-03-2008
In reply to: bh1125
Wed, 07-14-2010 - 11:48am

Since she has told you that she isn't responsible for your happiness, you need to be aware that you're not responsible for hers either.




iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2007
In reply to: bh1125
Wed, 07-14-2010 - 12:49pm

I agree with Aprilmagic. You can do little things that are noticed. You can cook but only set out a plate/silverware for yourself. If she wants something then let her get it. Do only

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2007
In reply to: bh1125
Wed, 07-14-2010 - 2:34pm

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2010
In reply to: bh1125
Wed, 07-14-2010 - 2:42pm
Thank you very much.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2007
In reply to: bh1125
Wed, 07-14-2010 - 4:32pm

Your spouse needs to understand that she can not pick and choose the moments that it is convient to be married and the moments that she

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2010
In reply to: bh1125
Fri, 07-16-2010 - 12:40pm
Wow.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2007
In reply to: bh1125
Fri, 07-16-2010 - 2:50pm

Bh ... you have not lost everything.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2010
In reply to: bh1125
Tue, 07-27-2010 - 9:16pm
Well I spoke with her before the weekend and told her how I am feeling once again and the response was you need to speak to your counsellor about it.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2007
In reply to: bh1125
Wed, 07-28-2010 - 9:03am

I have been waiting for your update. I am so sorry that she won't commit to you and the marriage.


Well I spoke with her before the weekend and told her how I am feeling once again and the response was you need to speak to your counsellor about it.

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