She is investing in other men and relationships. She is emotionally cheating on you (if not more). Her time, thought and energy are going elsewhere when you need her comfort and support.
Since she has told you that she isn't responsible for your happiness, you need to be aware that you're not responsible for hers either.
I agree with Aprilmagic. You can do little things that are noticed. You can cook but only set out a plate/silverware for yourself. If she wants something then let her get it. Do only
Your spouse needs to understand that she can not pick and choose the moments that it is convient to be married and the moments that she
Bh ... you have not lost everything.
I have been waiting for your update. I am so sorry that she won't commit to you and the marriage.
Well I spoke with her before the weekend and told her how I am feeling once again and the response was you need to speak to your counsellor about it.