Ex will not accept responsibilty for his cheating

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Registered: 03-11-2011
Ex will not accept responsibilty for his cheating
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Fri, 03-11-2011 - 7:38pm

So....how do you deal with your anger and betrayal when your ex does not think he has done any wrong?

After being with this controlling man for 23 years, I am now finding out all sort of lies such as he frequented massage parlors and got "happy endings" as well as 1 confirmed affair with an ex secretary.

The icing on the cake was that when I searched my soul and decided for divorce, he claims that he was sexually abused...hmmm never in 23 years did he ever mention that to me.

I can't even vent to him for he feels that he has done no wrong.

As if that isn't enough, I am now in the midst of a custody battle and now having to support myself for the first time in my adult life.

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Registered: 03-11-2011

Oh SunnyGirl,

How our lives are so the same.

The children do see through their father's manipulative actions although as teenagers they are fully taking advantage of his "buying" their love.

My ex is stalling as well, probably enjoying it.

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Registered: 09-18-2007

Blindsided,

My attorney is also my cheerleader, and you need to get one like that, or kick his butt into acting as your advocate.

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