Is this fair?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-16-2009
Is this fair?
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Thu, 01-22-2009 - 6:34pm
I am just wondering if it's fair for me to be this way today.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-13-2008
In reply to: abt123
Thu, 01-22-2009 - 6:40pm
Its the natural progression of things- you'll feel angry, sad, energetic, despondent on different days and usually to the extreme. Its not your fault.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2008
In reply to: abt123
Thu, 01-22-2009 - 9:18pm

You are not alone in your feelings.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2008
In reply to: abt123
Fri, 01-23-2009 - 1:47am
It's totally normal, this will go on for a long time, no matter how badly you want things to work out.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2008
In reply to: abt123
Fri, 01-23-2009 - 7:10am

It's been 7 weeks for me and I still have all those feelings.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2007
In reply to: abt123
Fri, 01-23-2009 - 8:54am

abt123,


i'm one of oldies from an A--dday was may 2006.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-13-2009
In reply to: abt123
Fri, 01-23-2009 - 9:02am

abt..Trust me its normal. I have the feelings, one minute I am fine the next minute I am angry ten minutes later I am sad & depressed.


We have been stabbed in the back by the person that is suppose to have our back.


Take it one day at a time and post here.


The people here are amazing. It stinks that we are here but it is nice (yes,

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-16-2009
In reply to: abt123
Sat, 01-24-2009 - 8:32am
Thanks to everyone for the confirmation that I am at least not losing my mind in that aspect! :)
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-03-2008
In reply to: abt123
Sun, 01-25-2009 - 10:16pm

It is okay to feel angry, sad, confused, and conflicted about your life right now. Your husband had an A and it turned your world upside down. I am 8 weeks out and the other night I was not sure if I had made the right decision in trying to rebuild. I was so filled with rage at my H and I really wanted him out of the house. I continue to go back and forth between wanting to work things out and wanting HIM out.