Feeling confused, lost, and alone

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Registered: 05-29-2010
Feeling confused, lost, and alone
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Sat, 05-29-2010 - 1:48am

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Registered: 04-16-2008
Sat, 06-05-2010 - 11:03am
Couldn't have said this better myself lillie, and I agree with you 100%. She is heading for a fall as soon as the fog clears and reality sets in. There's just no way she can really know this guy after such a short time. I believe this is a train wreck waiting to happen.
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Registered: 04-16-2008
Sat, 06-05-2010 - 11:16am
I wish I had more advice for you. The only thing I do know is that you can't reason with someone who is in the throes of the infatuation or "in love" stage of a new relationship. They are so pumped up on those new love chemicals and are not thinking straight or thinking AHEAD to the consequences of their behavior. I would call it possessed. It's very hard, but you need to be strong for yourself and your son. She will snap out of the fog eventually, like my H did. All you can do is try to concentrate on yourself and your sons well being right now.
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Registered: 08-25-2009
Mon, 06-07-2010 - 6:26am

There will be floods of cheerleading and advice that will come to you from this site.

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Mon, 06-07-2010 - 7:04pm

Listen carefully. She is being very honest with you about her feelings. It is hard to accept. Please do see her as finally being honest. Go to the boards on Mismatched Libidos and the one Married without
Romance. You will find much knowledge there.

Now for the no so good: A regular counselor is not trained for these things which call for one who is also an MD and a sex therapist. When you say she has "met" this guy did that mean "in the flesh" or on the internet?

If she has not met in the flesh then I have a BIG WARNING:

http://travel.state.gov/travel/cis_pa_tw/financial_scams/financial_scams_4554.html

http://www.usa.gov/Citizen/Topics/Internet_Fraud.shtml
http://www.romancescams.org
http://www.romancescam.com/forum/portal.php
http://www.datingnmore.com/fraud/scam_database.htm

These people search for their prey and are very good at what they do.
http://www.ic3.gov/complaint/default.aspx

Now you have some information. I suggest copying everything that you legally can esp the "headers" of email. use Yahoo e mail which keeps transmissions.

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Registered: 05-29-2010
Tue, 06-08-2010 - 12:01am

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Registered: 02-04-2009
Wed, 06-09-2010 - 10:04am

Continue to concentrate on you and your son.

"If something cannot go on forever, it will stop."  Herb Stein

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