Feeling worn out and down

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-06-2008
Feeling worn out and down
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Mon, 02-01-2010 - 11:41am

Well, he went on the cruise alone.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
Mon, 02-01-2010 - 3:50pm
Why is it HIS decision?
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-01-2010
Mon, 02-01-2010 - 6:00pm

i absolutely agree with lily. now is your opportunity to get your things together financially and make a decision. i am a 32 yr old mom of 3 young boys.right after christmas i found out my H

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-10-2009
Mon, 02-01-2010 - 8:54pm

i agree with all the other posts. This is no way to live! Get to your attorney and file! you say you are financially secure at the moment so that's a step in the right direction. don't waste another moment!

Good luck!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 7:49am
My H had a lot of trouble ending his A - we would have tearful discussions and promises of "it's over" only for me to find out that it was still going on, just more underground as far as how they contacted each other.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-25-2009
Thu, 02-04-2010 - 8:21am

How would you feel about meeting him at the door on the 15th with the divorce papers .... Isn't it time to take things into your own hands and stop letting him call the shots?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-03-2010
Fri, 02-05-2010 - 12:07am

I loved your comment about a "piece on the side"!!! Funny.


Good thoughts. For me, I just don't seem to have the strength to make the move to file papers.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-03-2010
Fri, 02-05-2010 - 10:54am
30 years?