Flirting gone to far

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2009
Flirting gone to far
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Thu, 02-04-2010 - 11:13am

I am still trying to decide if my H is way out of bounds or if Iam oversensitive like he says..Deep down I do not think Iam oversensitive, I think he is just a huge flirt and it is hurting me and the marriage...


Here is an example of his flirting- while visiting a my friend well call her amy this is what happenend. My H, myself and amy and both our sets of kids go to museum for day...I notice

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-07-2010
In reply to: nda3
Thu, 02-04-2010 - 11:36am
I read your post to my H (a forgiven WS) and he agrees with you: it's highly inappropriate. There are lines of propriety that just shouldn't be crossed.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2009
In reply to: nda3
Thu, 02-04-2010 - 12:00pm

HI Thanks....


I know thye truth...I know he was wrong,,,But it is nice to hear that Iam not alone in my thoughts...It helps to hear other peoples thoghts on

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-10-2009
In reply to: nda3
Thu, 02-04-2010 - 12:31pm

Not only inappropriate but CRUEL.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2009
In reply to: nda3
Thu, 02-04-2010 - 1:27pm

Hi!! I know he was being innapropaite.....It is almost harder to blame him..Easier to think that am too jealous or sensitive...It is hard to face the truth that the one you love so dearly is not treating you with love and respect...


but I know what my gut says..It was wrong..and it is more than that....Somehow he has decided that anything goes..As long as he is not physically cheating than it is not cheating...He has no boundaries and he certainly is not thinking of my feelings..


iVillage Member
Registered: 03-10-2009
In reply to: nda3
Thu, 02-04-2010 - 2:23pm

I totally understand.