FOOLed Yet AGain-Feel Stupid

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Registered: 05-15-2009
FOOLed Yet AGain-Feel Stupid
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Wed, 05-20-2009 - 2:54am

My ex, I call him this because it's best. He cheated on me about over a year ago. Since August last year, he has been telling me and in front of my older daughter that he wants to be back with me, and yeah, stupid enough I had asked if we could try again. Stupid me, cos

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Registered: 05-12-2009
Wed, 05-20-2009 - 12:04pm
I wouldn't tell her squat. Let her find out all about him on her own, just like you had to. If it were me, I'd stop sleeping with him and kick him out once and for all, and move on to a better life. I hate drama and this sounds to me like it would be one big
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Wed, 05-20-2009 - 3:56pm

Yep, it will be some fantastic drama because now he will finally be known as the liar instead of me and also I may be pregnant, I'm gona have to tell them now. Can't hide that. I'm just tired of people thinking badly of me when it's not all me. I was just stupid enough to believe him again.


I need to close this chapter in my life but we have a daughter together.

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Wed, 05-20-2009 - 4:23pm
I would let your ex and the OW live with the mess they made and concentrate on living the best life and being the best mom your kids could ask for, a great role model and a strong support in their lives.
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Wed, 05-20-2009 - 6:55pm
Thanks for that. I am going to move on. My children are more important then he is and when S*** hits the fan, he will have his own self to blame and good job, he'll deserve it. In fact D**** and S** deserve each other. They live in Akld, GI. I'm going to be okay, I can feel that and this site helps alot.
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Wed, 05-20-2009 - 11:07pm
Are you his wife?
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Thu, 05-21-2009 - 1:30am

No, but we had planned to get married.

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