Found out 1 month ago. . . still have ??

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Registered: 02-25-2010
Found out 1 month ago. . . still have ??
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Thu, 02-25-2010 - 10:43am
I found out about my husband's affair 1 month ago- the day he moved out. We have a 2 1/2 year old and an 8 month old. He is now living with the other woman, who is also married with 2 children. I was completely blindsided by this and I'm still reeling. The problem is that we are still in daily contact. He still texts me while at work that he loves me and always will. But, his actions show that he has moved on. I just wish I could turn my emotions off as quickly as he has. I am devastated. Couples that we use to go out with are now spending time with him and this other woman. I honestly feel like I am in a bad dream and that this cannot be my life. How do I move on? How do I adjust to this new normal?
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Registered: 01-28-2010
Thu, 02-25-2010 - 11:31am
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Registered: 08-07-2007
Thu, 02-25-2010 - 12:25pm

First of all let me welcome you to the board. I am so sorry that you have a reason to be here, but you are in good company. There are many here who have been through this situation and who will give you support during this awful period in your life. We understand.


Read, Read, Read, here!!!

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Registered: 02-25-2010
Thu, 02-25-2010 - 12:31pm

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Thu, 02-25-2010 - 2:20pm
Welcome to the board - I am so sorry for your pain.
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Thu, 02-25-2010 - 2:51pm

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Registered: 08-31-2009
Thu, 02-25-2010 - 11:26pm

what a great post.

nothing more to say after reading this!!!!!!!!!!!

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Registered: 08-25-2009
Fri, 02-26-2010 - 1:53pm
I'm sure everyone will give you tons of advice... but, if you were able to read your entry with objective eyes you would see a couple of serious problems here.