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|Sun, 07-28-2013 - 10:50am|
Hi Everyone, after 13 years of marriage two weeks ago I found out dh joined a anonamous site to meet up and have sex.
He was on the site about a month before he 'met' her online, they emailed and texted for a week. (Pics too). We were on vacation the next few weeks, then when we came back it resumed. One night late he made some lame excuse about going out to get gas and 45 mins. Later I texted him if he was ok. He was home shortly after.
The next night he confessed. Apparently after 5-10 minutes he was freaked out (petting happened but not actual sex) and left. After her told me he texted her one final time and told her he told me. Names were not exchanged, he knows nothing about her.
The short of it is that we're seeing a counselor. I am still grieving, feeling duped, and extremely angry.
He is extremely remorseful and we're trying to work it out as I know it's a symptom.
Just wanted to join for some support and advice. Thanks.