found out my husband had sex with my mum!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-13-2011
found out my husband had sex with my mum!
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Sat, 08-13-2011 - 12:32pm

Hi All, I'm new to these boards and really in need of your opinions....

I've been with my H for 10 years, 6 of which married.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-16-2008
Mon, 08-15-2011 - 11:29am

oh boy, these are the consequences to their actions you should not be making everything better for them, it is their job to deal with their own mess

I do not think this is something that should be salvaged but that is easy for me to say

peace & strength to you

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2008
Tue, 08-16-2011 - 11:09am

If this story is really the truth, then you have two slimy people in your life who shouldn't be anymore.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-13-2011
Tue, 08-16-2011 - 1:39pm
Thanks to both of u taking the time to reply ..... And it is a nightmare and true all I have said!! Just numb and no idea what I'm doing. Going to stay with my very oldest and best friend for a fees days ... Need to sort ME out :(
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-16-2008
Wed, 08-17-2011 - 11:24am

Hi applepye

very good idea I would not rush into any decision to patch this up if I were you

and nobody could blame you for rushing to get away from it

peace & strength to you

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-20-2011
Sat, 08-20-2011 - 3:53pm

First I am so so sorry, I can't imagine how devastated you must feel.