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|Sat, 04-25-2009 - 11:12pm|
My no good for nothing husband tricked me into inviting his girlfriend to live with us. Long story he claimed they were just friends and I felt uneasy about having another woman live down the hall but we could use the extra cash. Anyways when she got here I knew they were sleeping together. Neither of them have jobs but she gets a disability check every month. Anyways he spends. 99.9 percent of his time with her. I have to go to bed early because I have to get up at 6 every morning. They stay up and watch tv/movies until 5 or 6 in the morning and then they sleep all day when I'm at work. They also go out to dinner and lunch together and they bring back leftovers. He says I should be happy about this.He hasn't taken me out since December. She moved in the day after Christmas. I must give you more facts so you can get the full picture. She is a 39 year old mother of five and her kids are living in Sacramento. The youngest is ten years old. My two year old stepson was calling her mom and I felt like she should have corrected him but her and my husband said they didn't see anything wrong with it. My husband has never had a job in the 3 years I've been married. They are always whispering and they have little private jokes. He forbid me from grocery shopping or cooking. He checks her phone to see who she's texting or talking to. She is pretty much his servant/mistress. One night at about 10 pm he felt like having a certain dessert. She called around until she found a restaurant that was open and brought it home for me. I had a miscarriage in february while he was in Sacramento with her. I called him and asked him to come home. He said no. By the way I was 5 months pregnant. Two weeks ago he yelled at me for crying over the miscarriage and called me a stupid @itch. Said I was weak and should be over it by now. Ok. I thinks that's enough bacground. I went into her room today and totally destroyed it. I was so pissed at having to deal with this woman being in my house and disrespecting me. By the way I gave him an ultimatum three weeks ago to kick her out or he would lose me. He said he would not break his promise to her and that she was his family. She's calling the police on me right now. I was not home when they finally returned from their Saturday outing. But my husband called to tell me that he did not want to see my face. I'm in a parking lot right now with no place to go and no one to call. I'm so afraid of being arrested. I did not break or tear up anything. I just made a mess of her bed and clothes. My husband is always telling me that if I leave him I'll be alone for life. I'm scared. What would you do in my position? Help!!!!!!