God help Eharmony women

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Registered: 06-07-2007
God help Eharmony women
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Sat, 09-11-2010 - 12:24pm

Hello everyone,



As you may or may not know I am seperated and our divorce will be final in Dec.

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Registered: 02-15-2008
Sat, 09-11-2010 - 12:35pm

Thanks gal christy! You gave me a chuckle when you said he sent you a "song he wrote" and it was the moody blues. lol! Don't you just wish there was some kind of national data base where all these serial cheaters could be reported to spare the pain for other women?

I just found out a couple of days ago that my now exh is "engaged"--this is live in GF#5 since our separation and D three years ago. Poor girl (she is much younger than him) is probably believing his nonsense. Well all I can do is shake my head and thank my lucky stars that I am out of his drama. If myself or any of King Turd's other ex wives told her the truth she probably would believe us.

Ollie

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Registered: 06-07-2007
Sat, 09-11-2010 - 12:38pm
Thanks Ollie.
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Registered: 01-28-2004
Sat, 09-11-2010 - 3:42pm

Off point but curious...how did you meet the new man?

Those online dating sites are scary.

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Registered: 04-16-2008
Sun, 09-12-2010 - 2:31am
don't date him girl.com
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Registered: 06-07-2007
Sun, 09-12-2010 - 8:32am

Hello!!!

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Registered: 03-31-2003
Sun, 09-12-2010 - 10:56am

I am so happy to hear you have distanced yourself from him and are no longer emotionally preyed upon by him. It must drive him nuts to see you doing well without him and moving on . . .

My H has trouble with honesty/integrity/serial lying too. He had an affair 6 years ago and has had 2 drunken groping incidences since then. I feel like he would totally cheat again if given the opportunity . . . we are separated since July.

Isn't it hard when they are hitting rock bottom? Living a life filled with dishonesty and immature/immoral behavior does eventually catch up. I imagine his life feels pretty shallow right now.

My H is living alone (he has the kids 2 nights a week and every other weekend roughly) and I know it is KILLING him.

People who live badly need others around to distract them from thinking about what they have done/do. I know my H is struggling, but he brought all of it on himself.

Sadly, I just found out he was reading my iVillage posts and when I confronted him, he lied to my face.

The tiger is still striped!

I am so glad you have met someone and are having a good time learning about each other. I hope I can trust again, at some point.

Good luck!

Imommy

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Registered: 02-15-2008
Sun, 09-12-2010 - 10:58am
thanks Peace, ha ha, I guess I'll have to add King T to the list;)
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Registered: 06-07-2007
Sun, 09-12-2010 - 1:29pm
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Registered: 06-10-2009
Sun, 09-12-2010 - 11:03pm
Good luck to you all. You will find that here is nothing more refreshing than to not have to be concerned with which lie your SO is about to tell you each time you wonder where he or she may have been spending their time while away from you. I'm still going it alone after twenty years of hell before wising up, but the last two years are far more enjoyable than the previous twenty.
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Registered: 05-24-2005
Wed, 09-15-2010 - 5:01pm
This is the only thing that has made me laugh today.